So it is hard to kick my old ways. W called me and let me know she is giving up the lease for a photography studio that she shares with some other photographers. She says she can no longer afford it.

Instead of giving her words which showed I was listening, I thought about different ways to fix her problem. I felt guilty as my support payment is not yet paid this month. But I did back off, understanding that this is her decision alone. And the question keeps nagging me how she is able to afford her place without a job, and no longer having her studio.

I am enjoying having my s13 for this week. We are enjoying goofing around with each other, playing video games, and discussing important issues of the day, like who is the better offensive NBA player Seth Curry or Carmelo. This part of my life is going well.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace