No matter now much it hurt for my wife to leave... that she gave up, that she took my kids from me, that she sold her wedding ring, that she told everyone that I am a monster..... I realized after a lot of reading and counseling, that IF!!!, I were going to turn this around, a positive change had to come from me first. I decided that I was going to create AND SUSTAIN this safe haven for her to feel comfortable around. Read the forgiveness links I posted earlier... get to church or temple.... Pray daily. Its hard, especially at the beginning. and watch the meds... they have a tendency to become a crutch.
Create the space.
hit me u anytime you want to chat...
We're all pulling for you.
Together 06-04 Married 10-05 She Left 10-11-14 I filed 10-22-14
