My story is parallels your almost exactly. My W continues her affair since April. we are waiting until after her brothers wedding 1/18 before we have the talk. I think I would still have my head in the sand if it was not for the thought of our daughters seeing me in this situation and thinking since I was ok with it, then they should be too. The way our Ws are treating us is not how husband and wife should be. I want my daughters to know that it is not ok for someone to dragged your heart around, even if the other person is someone that is suppose to love you. I do not want separation just like you but you have to realize that you can only control your actions. And that you will be ok no matter what
Me 36 W 33 D 7 D 4 M: 10 years T: 14 EA/PA: 06/12/14 - ongoing
