Fully believes that we can never have a relationship again after his behavior for the last three months.
Believes that he will never be able to control his anger or communicate effectively and that I "deserve so much more than that."
He fully believes that I'm the only one who triggers his anger. But come to find out, he's not talking to anyone, aside from me or his therapist. He hasn't told his parents what's going on other than we're "having communication problems". So of course I'm triggering his anger - because I'm having a conversation with him where he actually has to talk, instead of listen to his mom for 20 minutes talk about herself.
He's noticed my GAL activities - and comments that he's glad I'm living my life and having fun, because "I deserve it."
And the conversations he's initiating? Most out of obligation, again. Which is a habit he wants to break so now he's resentful because he's choosing to do something he doesn't want to do, because he thinks it's what I want.
I did enforce my boundary when he started getting angry and ended the conversation. That and he says how he's glad we have these conversations because it helps him work on trying to control his temper. ??????
I knew this was coming. I knew it.
I'm dead in the water y'all.
Off of the roller coaster. My ride is done anyway.
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15
