to live with or not to live with...

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Jim - Again, I agree with you here
Something else that has crossed my mind though, and something to think about T-mom - the possibility that a detached, friendly, room mate, that has nearly no contact, goes out on his own, finds his own activities, could be exactly what they want. It leaves them feeling less guilty about everything, in fact maybe it even justifies an A even more.

To me this complicates and perpetuates this limbo. I know we are doing this for ourselves, but do you ever think that instead of showing them a person that they'd be a fool to leave, that you are proving that this is all perfect?

Just wondering.