It is probably the most bitter surprise. What's even harder for me is that I still feel the need to keep our marriage a secret. H has not even told all of his family that we were married, and anytime H hears that I have confided in someone he seems to get upset. It's as if he wants to go on pretending like it never happened.
I guess I can seem why. Tell the story of "I ended things before the wedding" sounds a lot better than "we were married but I cancelled our wedding and filed for divorce."
Hang in there. This is all so hard.
Me 26 ; H 26 S 8 Married less than a year Bomb 9/15/14 H moves out 9/15/14 H Files 11/21/14 Served D papers 12/31/14
