I want to get rid of the questions that pop in my head that don't really matter( about ow)
Imo, those questions do matter, and from what I have read on healing from infidelity, your H needs to answer those questions some day. They can't be swept under the rug forever.
Maybe try writing them all down and put the paper safely away until later, that helped me get the questions out of the forefront of my mind.
Happy for you!!
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
