... and I do love him and I don't want him to live in squalor, but the reality of him being without me will be very difficult for him. It's just that I would not want that to be the reason he stays, so I don't want to use that for a tool at all.

Serenity NOW, Serenity NOW!!! LOL...

Me: 47
H: 41
S: 14
M: 19 years
T: 20 years