Oh H also said that he is just trying to get our son in a good place and he wished the MTG was lower so the financial strain would be less on me if he left.

So this man is here "working" on getting our son in a good enough place for him to leave.

working on getting our bills lower so he can feel better about leaving his family

I dont need his favors, we can raise our son by coparenting and I can figure out my own finances.

Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW