THAT is my question! Financially, it is much more intelligent to live with my WAH...separately, of course... he sleeps in the basement family room. This is driving me crazy, but is probably better for S14. Plus, I still see him all the time, and have to interact with him often. We get along fine, because he is in cake-land, and I am... faking a lot.

So the question is: for DB purposes, which is generally better, (without considering finances) letting him stay, or asking him to go? If it's his journey, and it is, then is it better if he is on his own without much contact? I mean, that is what happens when people separate, right? HELP, please!


Serenity NOW, Serenity NOW!!! LOL...

Me: 47
H: 41
S: 14
M: 19 years
T: 20 years