Well Im expecting that the D process will begin sometime in the next couple of weeks. I'm obviously not happy to be officially entering a D, but I am still feeling pretty decent. I really do think I pre-processed a lot more than I thought. Once I accepted what was happening, it only took 2-3 days of hardcore grieving to feel how I do now, which is happier and more peaceful than at any other time post-BD.

Here is a question: what is the opinion of a FB announcement? I'd say 90% of my friends and distant family know about my sitch now. Ive never put anything on there about this. Should I just let people continue finding of naturally? If I did post, how might that be worded? I was thinking about that but it gets tricky. I don't want to place blame, but I also don't want to act like it's mutual. That makes me lean towards not posting.


Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23