I do not pop on here for just anybody young lady, but I thought it was worth my time to say a few things since I know how hard you have worked and the time that you have put in to your marriage and figuring out how to work through all that you have had to endure and experience.
First things first, congratulations on this latest experience, you have waited a long time to see where the road would lead and I am very proud of you for letting it take you rather than trying to dictate the end game. For those reading this for the first time who do not know what Mishka has been through, I will simply say that she has held her head high with dignity throughout this experience and seen it through with the best of them. Where some of us had to give up hope, she persevered through to the end.
Secondly, Gabe recommitted because you allowed him to figure it out and decide it was what he wanted to do. I seem to remember some conversations for you in the past where you had to understand that you cannot force it, you have to let it happen. This is a long journey for some, longer than some others in fact. If you believe in your heart that it can reconcile, then you continue down that path until you know the time is right for you to walk away. You didn't completely give up and allowed it to work out. Kudos Mish, now I will give you my last piece of advice, do not stop what you have learned just because of this event. Continue on with what you have learned because it worked to get you here and can work to make your new commitment wonderful.
I cannot believe you got me to come back on these boards
