D in 11th hr and now we are piecing! DB such help!

[willbwell]

My story is the same as so many of us here.My h of 20 years has an A with a younger woman.
He moves out. d is filed. financial negotiations going back and forth. close to a settlement.
I came here for help. had several coaching sessions. Tried to listen to what the vets advised. I GAL. I was mostly upbeat and positive around him. I quit calling, texting. We were separated for 2 years.all the while this a is continuing.
Aug. h says he made a mistake. I said we had to go to MC. He agreed this time. I said he could not just move back in that we had to take it slow.
We've been seeing a good MC. We discussed some of the reason the a happened.
H moved back in early Nov. The d has been closed.
I am trying to be forward looking. We are still fragile. I still feel quite vulnerable. He knows he hurt me greatly. I am still dealing with trusting him. It is my insecurity.
I want to get rid of the questions that pop in my head that don't really matter( about ow) I do think h is committed to working and sees us with a future together.
I feel grateful for this website.
willbwell