had another good day with WAW today. Started off with her calling last night and offering the kids to me for my family's x-mas party, of course I said yeas.so I met her and picked up th kiddos. I made sure I was all dapper... sport coat, nice jeans, cologne, fresh shave and 30lbs lighter than when she left. she dropped off the kids and I asked if I could keep them for Mass, and she sais yeah. I told her there is always a seat available for one more at church (temp taking). me and the boys went to mass and I invited her to breakfast for the kid exchange and she accepted. it was nice seeing her and SS18 again (although I see him when coaching hockey all the time). we parted ways , but I couldn't help but notice she was smiling again the whole time!!. I did some more temperature taking by apologizing for not binging some of her old Christmas ornaments with me to give back. I asked if she wanted me to drop them off or just wait till next year to see if we have x-mas together.... she answered.. "I'm not ruling that out"... My heart almost stopped!!!!. then a few hours after, we start some innocent texting banter back and forth regarding going to a chick flick sometime.. and she asked if I was chipping in for the popcorn.
It seems that creating a lighthearted and easy environment is really working out!!! we will see what the next few weeks hold, but fingers are crossed. I also lightheartedly expressed a few things that I have learned about being selfish in the past, and only doing the things that Ive always wanted to and my willingness to compromise. she said she was proud!!!
any thoughts???
Together 06-04 Married 10-05 She Left 10-11-14 I filed 10-22-14
