I am solidly divorced, and the day my X finally moved into his own home (I bought our home....)he supposed he and I would be driving around in an RV when we were 70 visiting our grandkids.
Indeed WTF! I have been enjoying my time alone. I seem to attract losers. Or maybe Hawaii does ;-)
So maybe they just want to be friends. Heck with friends like that who needs enemies.
I miss my old life. But just the good parts, which in actuality were few and far between. I don't miss the part where pretty much I was his servant who asked "How high?" each time he said "Jump!"
And yes, lots of thoughts run through my head. With a strong desire to talk, mull, muse over the details. Like the line in the song "Miserable" by Lit we use up all of our friends.......
Anyway, keep floating!
Aloha,
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!