So... just got mail for the future SIL at the house. First time ever that it's happened. BIL used to lived with us and still gets mail here, but today something from an insurance company came for future SIL with our address on it and something about it doesn't sit right with me.

BIL is supposed to start the fire academy in early Feb, and he and H are extremely close (H is also a firefighter). I have a gut feeling that H has plans to move BIL and future SIL into our house and kick me and S8 out. Future SIL's parents live on the same street, and I could see H wanting his brother to live with him during the academy to help him through. If this is the case, I am going to be FURIOUS. Yes, I have been in the house for almost 4 months, and yes, H bought the house before we were married but while we were still together. But kicking S8 and I out on such short notice or at all to move his family in? WTF

I could be jumping to conclusions here, or maybe I'm totally on point. It's actually been a huge fear of mine that H would move BIL in if we moved out. Because BIL doesn't like me or support or relationship. And I fear that if they live together, any hope of reconciliation would go completely out the window.


Me 26 ; H 26
S 8
Married less than a year
Bomb 9/15/14
H moves out 9/15/14
H Files 11/21/14
Served D papers 12/31/14