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Do you think you didn't voice your LL need enough? Or do you think you went about it in the wrong way? i.e. Gratefully acknowledge and reward H when your LL is fulfilled as opposed to complaining/asking when he doesn't?

Thanks Card! Good questions. I went about it the wrong way. Maybe I could have spoken up more about my needs, but I think that affirmation would would have gone a long way. I tended to focus on the negatives and not the positives. Sigh... I wish I had really understood this years ago.

Thanks for the link to the article. Very helpful!