I had a SSM and xh and I had lots of sex post BD. I didn't read anything into it and it was pretty good. However, (and perhaps I should not admit this), I also engaged in this because even though my M was SS, I have a very high drive at times and I had no idea when I would have sex again. There. I admitted it.
However, from your postings, I don't get that feeling that you can view it as just sex. And that's not a bad thing. However, you probably should stop. Melissa is spot on and very honest with her post. I do think there is the occasional instance where sex can *help* a reconnection, I believe it is rare and coupled with other actions. Just my 2 cents.
Hang in there!
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
