WAW Dating - Oh noes!!..

[LoveMyW]

Righto, so I'm having a bit of a funny moment on the rollercoaster so I have decided to post..

How do I handle things RE: new BF??.. I seem a little stuck on what to do.. We are S (as you all know) and living separately.. I have put down what boundaries I can in this position and honestly, I don't know if they are being adhered to or not.. One part of me says that if the kids aren't being harmed then I don't care, but the other side of me wants to break it all off..

I feel by not saying/doing anything that I am giving her free reign to get their R up off the ground, but I also know that by making a big deal out of it that I am also probably making their R stronger by pushing WW further toward him..

It's a rock and a hard place!!.. I currently don't talk about him, nor do I acknowledge anything that is said about him apart from what the kids say, and even then I fob it off with a "cool" or something along those lines..

Someone please tell me how to handle it!!..