KGirl - one year later con't

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I would want him to meet me halfway and want to spend more time with me than he did in the past.

I resonate with your dilemma on how much time should be spent with you vs other people. My LL is Quality Time, so this has always been a sore spot for me. I tried to wait patiently until WAH had time to spend with me (between work, illness, kids, playing on his computer, etc), but he didn't make it a priority (and I prob didn't voice my need as often as I should have). By the time of BD, he told me that he had no time for his friends, etc. He made it sound like I took all of his time, but I don't think I did.

I agree that WAH should want to spend some time with you and not resent it. It sounds like your relationship was off balance.