Lisa

This sounds like your WAH coming out party. Designed so you could see all the glory. A fanfare of how wonderful life could be in his party.

It is designed to shock and repel. Put on your poker face, reinforce your boundaries and observe. My H did something similar when we went on holiday, treated me to a week of drunken unpleasant behaviour whilst he partied with his golfing buddies. I contacted a friend and we went to a spa for a couple of days.

Detach, cool, detach. Pull way back and observe.

H lifestyle, H choices, nothing you can do. Let him fall, hit rock bottom, run up and down the same old cheese less tunnel with the other blind mice. It isn't physically possible to maintain a normal life doing this and drugs are an extra dash of the mean and nasties.

I am saddened I read this, but your DB friends are here to respond in any way we can with love for you. Reaching out with hugs
Vanilla

Last edited by Vanilla; 12/28/14 12:26 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW