It's amazing the things you find when sorting out your house. I just found a Valentine's card from my wife's Dad to her mother. The message inside reads:
How often we wish for another chance To make a fresh beginning A chance to blot out our mistakes And change failure into winning And it does not take a NEW YEAR To make a brand new start It only takes DEEP DESIRE To try with all our heart To live a little better And to always be forgiving And to add a little "sunshine" To the world in which we're living So never give up in despair And think that you are THROUGH For there's always TOMORROW And a chance to start anew
(Helen Steiner Rice)
Sent to you for friendship's sake With all the good wishes a heart can make
The tone of this card tells me it may have been sent after my wife's parents separated. She would have been 10 or 12 at the time which makes this card nearly 20 years old. I didn't get to spend much time with FIL but it's funny the similarities I've found between us since his passing. My wife adored her father and continues to talk about him regularly.
That's all I wanted to share. I feel a little emotional reading it but I'm glad I did.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014