I'm going to make it a goal for January to have people over - maybe a football party, maybe board games, some reason to have people over and have snacks and drinks, and actually see the cat I post all these pictures of on social media. Having people over is scary but that would be a good social event, it's people I know, and I can work on not being so anxious about how clean things are, or if there's cat hair floating around, or if anyone is allergic to anything... Might sound like a really basic goal but I've only had friends over like twice and they were somewhat self-invited ("Can I see your new place? Can I stop by to see your couch before we go out to dinner?" things like that). I have not invited any friends over since I moved in June :S
Last edited by KGirl; 12/27/1411:16 PM.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final