I'm going to make it a goal for January to have people over - maybe a football party, maybe board games, some reason to have people over and have snacks and drinks, and actually see the cat I post all these pictures of on social media. Having people over is scary but that would be a good social event, it's people I know, and I can work on not being so anxious about how clean things are, or if there's cat hair floating around, or if anyone is allergic to anything... smile Might sound like a really basic goal but I've only had friends over like twice and they were somewhat self-invited ("Can I see your new place? Can I stop by to see your couch before we go out to dinner?" things like that). I have not invited any friends over since I moved in June :S

Last edited by KGirl; 12/27/14 11:16 PM.

Me:30 H:29, no kids
T:12, M:4 (when D was final)
12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore"
6/14: Separated (I move)
1/15: H filed for D
5/15: D final