Yesterday at my W family Christmas party (annual, been going for entire 12 years of R) she says, "You can still come to this every year... Will you want to?" She didn't like my answer of, "who knows how either of us will feel next year, that's a long time away." Point is, I was thinking the exact same thing you were...WTF?? No clue what it means.
As of December 2023 Me: 45 XW: 43 S13 S10 ILYBINILWY: 11/14/2014 OM: 11/14/2014 D process: 12/14/2014 D final: 04/2015