You know, I'm torn on this one. Truth is, many WASs tell themselves this because they are confused and don't want to give you false hope. So it might be ok to go with it for a time or two.
On the other hand, my general rule about dating is, when someone tells you who they are, BELIEVE THEM. if you were dating some new guy and he told you it was just sex, would you stick around? Heck no !
Also, btw, no guy in the history of the world ever sat out in the parking lot while his bachelor party goes into a strip club. I have a bridge in Brooklyn I'd like to sell you.
