I'm not sure... I don't know whether you are saying what you think you should be saying. Maybe it's because I'm missing the back story? How was your marriage before you found out about the affair?
I laughed at your story about OM being a virgin. It's fascinating the different things people will say.
I'm glad you're feeling good. It seems that most of us will go through some extreme highs and lows before things start to level out.
As for Christmas... Nobody can say for sure what is right or wrong. You sort of try a few things on and then figure out what is right for you. The focus is always.. What is helping you to change to be a better person?
Whatever happened with OM's wife? Did you call her?
Me:38.. H:33. Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3 M:8.. together for 11. Bomb dropped:10/17/11 Separated:11/07/11
