I thought everything was okay...(Part 2)

[MCS]

So, got an email today from W's uncle that lives on the other side of the country. They never really talked, but once every couple years at family events. I guess he had my email address instead of my W's.

Anyway, he addressed it to her and referred back to a wedding that W attended a couple weeks ago. He said that he was sorry that he didn't get a chance to talk to her, but was concerned because W looked pretty stressed. Asked W to give him a call to talk.

Not that it matters, but I'm guessing he finally found out the sitch when he called W's grandfather for Xmas since it was weird because the wedding was beginning of Dec.

All I did was forward it to W, didn't add anything at all.

Anyway, I'm guessing the W's family is circling the wagons about our M, which I'm glad is happening. A good portion of the W's family is D and over the years, they've always seen us as a happy couple.

In addition to this, I got an Xmas card from FIL saying that he prays that somehow this can work out. I talked about SIL the other week, she's trying to talk with W. I know MIL has tried to talk to W about what's going on. W's grandfather sent an Xmas card to my house addressed just to W.

Then there was that guy that approached me when W was moving out.

I know that W needs to make her own decisions, but it's comforting that it seems that her family is trying to work it out with her. It also helps my PMA that I'm not the person that W perceives me to be, that doesn't matter for anyone else in the sitch, but it does help me when I start to believe the spew that she sends my way.