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I want to change my life NOW. I want my H to either man up and return to the marriage or LEAVE.


This is so me right now. I hope you're doing better. Every time I read you're posts I see me. A lot of what you say is the same way I feel. I read your posts the other day about feeling inadequate, weird because that was the word I finally used to describe how I felt in my marriage and as a mother.

A new year is coming, I hope we can all start fresh!


Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since