Can you give us some additional information? Do you guys have children? What would you say have been some of the biggest issues in your relationship recently?
How are you handling things when he's texting her in front of you? Have you confirmed it's only an EA?
What are you doing to distract/better yourself at this time (or GAL)?
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014