Wife's Still a Lesbian

[essjay]

Interesting things to come out of the conversation tonight also were;

She's finding out about herself - who she is etc.
Determined to keep on this path - happy with her decision.
Her new friends have helped her a lot in this process
Not interested in being a wife, mother anymore - just being selfish, her time now.
Acknowledged all of my changes have been good.
She's made mistakes in the way she's gone about this - especially with the girls.
Girls are adults now, up to them to make their own lives happy..
They're not affected by what happens to us!
We will probably sell this house and get divorced eventually.
I'm the one most affected by this and I have to rebuild a new life for myself
and
She thinks that we all need to go to counselling to help us move on.
This is her New Years Resolution - that she'll organise this for us.

So counselling could be on the agenda. Not for reconciliation though but just to help us move on as a family.

A lot to take in from this conversation tonight, there's probably more that will come back to me in a while. I'm still processing!

In the meantime I'd welcome any thoughts or advice from you guys.