Wife's Still a Lesbian

[essjay]

So tonight we've had a R talk.
I found out she's told a friend of her new 'status'.
So now it's more than just her family know. My guess is that soon most of our local friends will find out. I am not ok with this - however, I know I have no control.
She has to do what she wants to do - she's so determined about this path. Very selfish and single minded.
She sees this as a step in moving on. Forcing me to confront the situation as she feels that I haven't accepted or moved on from what's happened.
This in spite of me saying I don't care anymore.
She tells me that the girls message her saying Dad's upset and that they're worried about me! That they want us to talk and sort it out and get back together again as it was before.
She of course dismisses that thought completely - not going to happen!