Busting a Move - LisaB Ch6

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Oh Lisa. That sounds really terrible. What a difficult situation.

I think the wise folk here would say that these are his problems and his to solve. It must be so hard though to see a loved one spiralling like that. I used to worry about my H when he was out but over time just came to realise that he has to take care of himself. That's what he's learning to do now and I'm learning to trust that he can do it.

I wonder if it would be ok to state that you are concerned for him but that you don't want anything to do with him if this is what he wants from his life? Then continue to go NC?

At the end of the day you gotta protect you and it sounds like you don't want to be a part of that scene (I wouldn't either). Whether or not you want the M tow work out in the end, I think NC is good for you and for your situation. Leave him be and let him work through this.