Wife having emotional affair part 4

[3kids]

Thanks PM, I did decide to pay for all the kids to get presents for there mom. It's more about the kids so it for the best. Made there Christmas better. As far as the insurance I think as for now I'll keep her on the insurance. It doesn't cost me any more to have her on it. If the divorce ever happens then I'll ask her to find her own. As far as her moving that I think I'm pretty set in stone on not helping her. Time for her to put her big girl stuff on. Plus I'm to busy with my new life, right!?!

As far as Christmas went me and the kids had a great time. I don't think I have ever been that lonely like Christmas morning with out the kids. I did like everything else make it through it. The wife doesn't call or text. And I'm kind of getting use to it. Only talks to me in person. She wished she didn't miss any of the family get togethers that we always have. There was a miss communication on time she was supposed to pick up the kids on Christmas Day. So the kids where kind of mad at me because they where supposed to have this big dinner with her before OM came back into town. They where really looking forward to it, as I found out. She did end up doing pretty good with them for Christmas. I was very happy with all the stuff she got for them. She even planned a outing with each of them individual. The oldest and her get to go to a season final football game. Way to go mom! Sounds like she is really starting to put an effort to her and the kids. Like working full time while she is on Christmas break from school. Even though OM is home. Proud of her.

Wish I could figure out my happiness. I really have been struggling to figure it out. Yes my kids make me over happy. But on a personal level I struggle a lot. I also have been struggling to figure out how to deal with my oldest. He has so much anger right now. Yes I know he is a teenager but a lot more is directed at me.

Thanks