I am the type of person that always takes on the responsibility for when things go wrong. I always have to figure out what I did to make it happen. But I think I am now getting to the point where I realize it isn't always my fault and no one has the right to treat me badly. I don't have to accept that anymore, not from him, not from myself, not from anyone.
Amen
I too have just had this light bulb go off ... call it detach, self worth, return of some self esteem .. whatever it is .. its warm and cozy and I think I want to wear it around the house for a bit.
