It seems I have been and I am still ignorant to many of my W's feelings. I really need to stop the "mind reading". It shows that I still have a way to go in my journey of healing and understanding.
When meeting with my therapist last week, I let him read the emails in my other post. He told me that regardless of the "level of validity" of her concerns, it was all surrounded by her feeling, or lack there of, Security. It was a breakthrough moment for me. Now all I have to do is figure out, how to re-inject security to her, for her to feel comfortable with exploring the possibility of our future together.
Thanks again for the women's insight on this. I cannot believe how helpful this board has been to me and the others seeking help and advice..
anyone else want to chime in on this???
I hope there are some guys reading this that are in the same boat as I am... this was an eye-opening reply.
Together 06-04 Married 10-05 She Left 10-11-14 I filed 10-22-14
