You have had ample time to figure this out, and the only one that truly knows when its over is you. I will continue to pray, and maybe if he realizes this, who knows what may happen. Just please read my link on offering and accepting real forgiveness.. It will only benefit you in the long run. It is like dropping a 100lb weight off your back... very liberating and opens you up to many more options and opportunities.
I had a long talk with my neighbor last night, it seems I am the local pseudo therapist now...LOL. She has been holding on to things that happened in her marriage since her divorce over 7 years ago. It is literally killing her inside, from some of the things that she does to cope from never letting go and forgiving. We talked long and hard about how forgiveness is not forgetting and forgiveness is not about the other person. It is to help you realize the fallibility of humans and we are all imperfect. seems like a light bulb may have went off in her head and she may be realizing that its time get on with her life.
Another help may be The Parable of the Unforgiving Servant.
Matthew Chapter 18:21...
Good luck and youre in my prayers!!!!
Together 06-04 Married 10-05 She Left 10-11-14 I filed 10-22-14
