If you are a woman and or WAW,

1.why does it seem harder for the fairer sex to be able to lower their pride?

2. Maybe the same question, but does it seem harder for women to offer true forgiveness?

3.(any maybe the biggest question) while women typically have a bigger support system, Have any of you women finally gone against, or possibly realized that your GF's and BFFs were possibly giving you selfish or poor advice about leaving? (possibly not knowing both sides of the story?)?. and how did you come to realize this and what was your "revelation moment"?

Thanks

here is a little background

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...631#Post2518631

A little more

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2520776&page=1

Last edited by Ile Guy; 12/26/14 08:30 PM. Reason: new link

Together 06-04
Married 10-05
She Left 10-11-14
I filed 10-22-14

SS18
S 7.5
S 6