Retreat

[Marylov]

Hello! I am a 30 year old female, been married 3 years, with a daughter that is under a year old. Almost 2 weeks ago my husband told me he wants to get a divorce. We have been through tough time before, so while I was upset I still had hope that he was just lashing out. Two weeks later, his resolve seems to be growing. He has made a significant investment in a new living arrangement, and I am terrified that this is really it. He was agreed to go with me to a retreat, and everything I read about it seems very promising. He says he loves me, but that our marriage has made his miserable. I am reading DB, but am scared to just let him "go" and stop pursuing before we go to the retreat. So far, my response to him has been basically denial, I keep telling him that I am "not giving up" and he basically looks at me like I am crazy. Does any one have any advice as to what I should be doing during this time before the retreat? I PRAY PRAY PRAY that the retreat will soften his heart, and I am clinging to hope. I am just glad he agreed to go with me, even though he really doesn't want to go. I think he is just going to say he tried. I am so scared of losing the most important person in my life!