You didn't break them, therefore you can't fix them. This is their journey to take and you were not invited along. It's all about them, not you. No matter who you are, you could be the most beautiful or handsome person in the world w/tons of money, and yet, when the clock strikes the proper time, they will enter MLC and leave you behind. Nothing you said or did would have stopped their crisis.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.