Just a quick update. I'm moving this weekend! Already made a trip, came home to eat lunch and do another. Furniture gets done tomorrow!
My holiday was much more peaceful than I ever thought it was going to be. I figured I'd be dwelling on Christmas Eve, which was always spent with BF's family, and how OW has basically replaced me.
Instead I never really thought about it, had a great dinner with a friend's family. Went over friend's last night and had a blast, too.
So, in the end, while BF crossed my mind, I was peaceful.
I hope everyone else's holiday was at least manageable, too.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies