Daring .. honestly I see where you are coming from .. you are fair .. beyond fair. However I do think your H needs to hold his end of the bag regardless .. I do think there is a line that the lawyers draw and what we wo0uld draw .. maybe find some middle ground there .. you really could hose the guy over .. but I get you not wanting to be that person .. I am the same .. I pay much more right now than I know the state would have me pay, however if the D is going to go through .. then I will have to protect myself and my S's best interest ... just as you will have to do. Sometimes its tough when what your heart says conflicts with the pocketbook/lawyers.
