I was reading someone else's thread and the words of his children... To all of you in the middle of the storm, listen to the words spoken from others.. You will realizise that you are not involved with your ex' s choices.. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU!!!! As they claim it has everything to do with you.. You did not make them leave, abandoning their family and friends, dropping responsabilities on others and self-medicate.. It is not YOUR doing, it is THEIRS!!!
My children want me to be happy and have trust in me to chose someone GOOD not just a Mr. Right now like their father is doing. They have no interest in the woman ex-h is dating but want to spend time with me and Kevin and want to be part of his family.. Me and ex-h now have separate lives and his choices and my choices are totally different.. We would no longer be compatible. We are way to different now. We have different views, different goals, different lives .. I like my life and I guess, he likes his.. His outcome has cost him the respect of the people that loved him the most.. I still have that and more !!
