UC, you need to ditch the Intel right now. I used to look at the joint checking account and cell phone logs (could only see calls not texts) multiple times per day. It didn't do anything but bring down my spirit. As long as she can't hurt you financially then not looking at this stuff will help you detach.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction
