Hello Faith... I would say your actions. If he is around in the home again, maybe you let him know you expect him to leave at x time b/c you have to sleep b/c you have a busy day tomorrow.
Me: 44 W: 45 S: 11 Married: 15 Together: 18 BD: 9/29/2014 OM discovered: 10/16/2014 I left her behind: 12/14/2014
