Maybell, you had a big day yesterday. I hope you can just rest today.
Put the Budda thing in the Goodwill pile. If it's from one of your kids then give him a hug and tell him you took it to the office. And please go buy yourself what you want.
What happens if you ask your H for help? Yesterday after dinner H disappeared to the recliner but he came back and helped clean up when I asked him to.
The big red flag for me in your post was the declining financial position. If that's true, get out now. File today.
