By the way, I do think texting my W, SS and SD this morning was the right move. It felt right at the time and still does. I've been working very hard during this S to do the correct thing regardless of how I feel. And I do feel like no matter what happens (D, R, etc.), I have handled this sitch with dignity.

I really appreciate the DB community for sharing stories and guidance, keeping me from doing stupid stuff that my hurting heart and brain tell me to do, and at times, just allowing me to vent.


Me: 39 W: 46
D: 7.5 S: 5
SD: 16 SS: 12
T: 2 (06/2012)
M: 2 (12/2012)
Separation 09/2014. No talks of D yet. No communication since 10/3/2014