Faith... Very sorry about your sitch... I hope that taking the forgiveness trail leads you to peace. You are absolutely correct about accepting the D as a selfless thing. Im not sure how CA works but in Mi there is a minimum 6 month cool off period (more like 9-12 months in our county)when kiddos are involved. I would take this time to create a peaceful space between the two of you in hopes to start dialogue in a peaceful way and keep everything conversation brief and succinct. with all hope things will thaw for the two of you as well. How long have you been together? is S8 his? whats some of the background leading up to this???
Together 06-04 Married 10-05 She Left 10-11-14 I filed 10-22-14