Great one Ganb8te...

you mentions something I found key in my path to forgiving my WAS.... Feeling better!!! you hit the nail on the head with that one. Every interaction since I started the process of forgiveness, I do feel better. every interaction that we have, seems better and better. Even after finding our one of the biggest hurts of her selling her wedding bands. I just gave her a one arm hug and kiss on the head and told her its only a ring. Like I said in my other thread, im not really sure if she really did or not, or was just trying to get a reaction. I had the chance to really inflict some pain... But I chose a totally different route. Whether this means we will be able to R or not is yet to be seen. But this way, I can truly hold my head up and be happier.


Together 06-04
Married 10-05
She Left 10-11-14
I filed 10-22-14

SS18
S 7.5
S 6