Faith, I am so sorry your H is treating you horribly like this. You are worth much more than he showed and yes it is not beneficial to you. Yes you take a risk by saying if he can't treat you better then he can have your company and your love. But if what he does and what he wants hurts you, then you can choose to reject his advances. What if you let him know?... "When you ML to me and then you sleep on the couch, my heart sinks."
Me: 44 W: 45 S: 11 Married: 15 Together: 18 BD: 9/29/2014 OM discovered: 10/16/2014 I left her behind: 12/14/2014