The reason I know it too I well is that I am in the same position. Only, I know I'm not there yet. It takes patience, even for ourselves.
(By the way, your signature is a little confusing. Who was unhappy and wants a D? It reads like its you. If it's W, put quotation marks of use "W is unhappy".)
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
